I don't see that it is possible. I might be wrong. It might be time to think of letting go. That is tough. I've had to do it myself with a few people. Life is suppose to be happy and living, in memory, of those who we cannot reach. Let it go. Tough stuff. That is just the truth. I'm sorry, but I'm a country person, and truthful, good or bad. I might be wrong. But you are full of life, a searcher. It is okay to re-direct that energy and look for something happy. Give yourself permission. Sometimes we are blocked for a reason. It is time to move forward. If your brother shows up later, be happy. If not, be happy anyway. Life is about living. We don't have forever, here, so don't waste it. It is time to mature and think in these terms. What is your life about, go there perhaps? Your brother probably doesn't want to be found. He is doing his own thing or something. That is fine. Do your own thing.
Journeygirl
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Glenda, is what you post here the result of sessions work? Because if not, WTF???
Life is also helping those in need, at the very least trying to help to the best of your ability.
Avantika...I will run sessions. I am not a professional, but I will try.
Check your PM.
Life is also helping those in need, at the very least trying to help to the best of your ability.
Avantika...I will run sessions. I am not a professional, but I will try.
Check your PM.
Journeygirl - I don't run official sessions, or at least don't think of them in that way. If the session, peaking, is not great news, what do you say, wait a long time to know anything, and the person does not want to be found, how do you say that to a person? The person being looked for at this time is alive and living in a tent city and wants to be left alone. There it is. Is that nice to share? Thanks for your help though. I did peak a long time. That is what I got. This person wants to be left alone. That is not absolute. Viewing is not absolute. I could be wrong. Leave it alone. Move on, live, be happy, thrive. All of us are unique. Some people are happy in one way and some of us are happy in another way.
Journeygirl
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Looking at your response from a persons point of view that doesn't view, I fail to see any indication on your part that your response was was a result of working to locate her brother.
I buried my husband this year and most recently my younger brother, don't lecture me on how short life is. Avantika is a human being looking for answers of a loved one, apparently you made an effort, couldn't you have made an effort towards a tactful response in letting her know that your words were a result in your findings. My husband died of cancer, one month from diagnosis to death, your response was that of those doctors, robotic, nonchalant...just odd.
I buried my husband this year and most recently my younger brother, don't lecture me on how short life is. Avantika is a human being looking for answers of a loved one, apparently you made an effort, couldn't you have made an effort towards a tactful response in letting her know that your words were a result in your findings. My husband died of cancer, one month from diagnosis to death, your response was that of those doctors, robotic, nonchalant...just odd.
Journeygirl
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Avantika, I ran a session last night,
I still have more to run before sending
you my findings.
Thank you.
I still have more to run before sending
you my findings.
Thank you.
It is a result of having been there and done that, and knowing at times, let people go. It is not easy. I've done it several times, in several ways. It is always difficult. Sometimes, from a distant person, it is easier to consider. It is a result of viewing. I can't change it or fix it or make it easy. Personally, I never give up on my close people, and always hope for the best, even when I'm being told NO, daily, till I can't any more, but I do prepare and still keep trying. It is how I'm wired, but I mentally prepare. I am sorry for your lose. People ask for a reason, and being distant, I figured it was easier from me to prepare for the truth. I might be wrong.
Journeygirl
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Glenda, In no way did you give any indication in your response to her on this forum that your initial responses were due to results in your findings, that you actually made an effort and ran sessions, or for you "peeked". If you want to help people, learn to report back your findings so the person who "doesn't view" understands they are reading something from your sessions/ "peeking" and not some random ramblings, or at the very least simply give them an opening statement and let them know...Good Morning Avantika, I "peeked" for you and these are my results. Don't make excuses and blame your lack in a decently written response of your findings on...been there done that, or a result of viewing, that's BS. Thank you though for your condolences and I wish you happy holidays.
Mycroft, thanks friend.
Mycroft, thanks friend.
Thank you for the teaching. I probably should communicate more clearly. I just grew up with it, peeking, viewing is the official term, and I forget it is still debated and not considered a real science. College was fun with scientist, and funny. I took some time, considered, thought about it, took several days, time, and still got the same image. Sometimes, people just want to be left alone for various reasons, not great reasons. It is probably not a good thing, or what we would pick, but let it go for now and live life, enjoy Christmas. That is just what I got, and I could be wrong.
In case I sounded too blunt, and I've been told that I am at times, I didn't mean to sound that way. I just know, being older, that we can't fix everyone and have to let them go at times. We can connect with them later, at times. My sister is also headed down a not good road. I get your pain over your brother. I sometimes sound flippant, and I'm not. I do wish that everything was good news and perfect. We live in a fallen world. I see it all the time. It has always been that way, but the young people are smart, and have good hearts. I am hopeful of their good power. There is power is youth. That is one of my favorite sayings. We can't fix everything, or everybody, but we can enjoy each hour and be grateful and connect.
Journeygirl
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Glenda, you say you took your time, thought about it and still got the same image, however there is no thinking in viewing period, you are only collecting data, that's it, collecting data and getting it down. Maybe you meant you thought about it after looking at your sessions work, I'm not sure at what point your "thinking" came in, regardless, my data does not coincide with your your data, not to say who's right and who's wrong, it's not about that for me, if anything makes me want to dig all the more. I will not let this go as it is not in my nature to quit.
MadManMal
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I have to be honest and say what i feel here . . . Firstly i would have been very surprised if you said you would have agreed with Glendas peek... I however think in this case it may have been wise to let it go... I believe this is less about the outcome and more about upmanship. This is not really healthy for anyone, especially for the requestee. The brother in all liklihood is safe and well . . thats just logic...and should that be the case...and when the time is right he will communicate.. i have done the same . .many have... just to breath
There are many reasons for the breathing . . .but very few for anything that crosses the line. i have seen nothing from the requestee to suggest a cause?
Please do not take this as a personal attack...its not . .I just feel RV is too special to get sidelined by emotions.
Mal
There are many reasons for the breathing . . .but very few for anything that crosses the line. i have seen nothing from the requestee to suggest a cause?
Please do not take this as a personal attack...its not . .I just feel RV is too special to get sidelined by emotions.
Mal
If it is not personal and emotional, with family, it is not worth it. Safe and okay, yes, wants to be left alone, yes. It is not really a hundred percent safe, the place, but life is never that way. It is an off place, not great looking. But enjoy Christmas and let it go. It is emotional. The best thing to do is live happy and be ready to make him feel the same later. One of my favorite sayings - No one made me judge of the world. I say it in the forum a lot. This person is okay, just lost a little at this time, according to what you want. It happens now and then.
Finding a thing of course would be easier, unless it was in a purse moving in a car, like that happened , but was found anyway, best I remember...
Morgan may remember that better.
I cant remember what I do with stuff, so im constantly taking a calm moment and reflect and then the image comes to me , where it is,
I hope this can be my counter to add ... adult distraction disorder...
A person missing tho, that's serious, almost 2 months, is that a common thing for your brother ?
Has he any dis orders, bipolar , ect...
Has he a drivers license ?
What have the police to say ?
I don't think upping the next guy plays a role in the past posting , but a genuine effort in trying to help is about as pure as it gets..
Whether are not the asking, is as pure, is yet to be seen..
Morgan may remember that better.
I cant remember what I do with stuff, so im constantly taking a calm moment and reflect and then the image comes to me , where it is,
I hope this can be my counter to add ... adult distraction disorder...
A person missing tho, that's serious, almost 2 months, is that a common thing for your brother ?
Has he any dis orders, bipolar , ect...
Has he a drivers license ?
What have the police to say ?
I don't think upping the next guy plays a role in the past posting , but a genuine effort in trying to help is about as pure as it gets..
Whether are not the asking, is as pure, is yet to be seen..
Journeygirl
New Member
No up-man's ship. I wanted to dig further and I did. Not Glenda or Mad even considered the possibility of other data out there, not so much as even asking, just dismissing anything other than their own session work or opinion. A good viewer working something as important as locating a missing person would be interested in all data.
I don't ask a lot of questions, maybe I should. I don't want to contaminate my first impressions, but maybe I should. I am just learning, like everyone. I just try to be real and honest and helpful, and gave my session without asking a lot of background data, just what I saw. It is called viewing.
Journeygirl - I am certain that you would do fine as an investigator or reporter. I investigate in another way. It was meant to be helpful. There are people who, for whatever reason, are just wanting to be left alone at this time and need room. It is what it is. You are welcome to investigate. I think all efforts and info are helpful, and there are many different ways to go about finding out information. I am open to most. I don't criticize. I don't see how criticizing anyone makes my way better or tearing down another person will building me up. Apparently you believe this does build you up in some way. More power to you. Go for it. Such people have existed all my life, and probably since the beginning of the human race. As viewers, we are all on the same team, just trying to learn and view. I didn't expect the person who asked about her brother to take my opinion as law or anything, but it was what I saw and something to consider, along with other items of information. I didn't expect another person on here to attack my way of passing on information to write, you, but it's okay, big deal.