I just read about his method for ridding PTSD sufferers from nightmares but I don't see why it wouldn't work for regular dreams too. Here is how one site describes it but I'm sure if look around you can find much more.
http://www.guidetopsychology.com/dreams.htm
Imagery Rehearsal Therapy
The raw emotions of repetitive, intrusive nightmares can be “tamed†by a simple, easily learned technique called Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT). If you have multiple recurring nightmares, select just one for the IRT process and use the process every night until the nightmare has been resolved; when that nightmare has been resolved, repeat the process for other nightmares.
1.
Write out the text of the nightmare. Tell the story, no matter how frightening, in as much detail as you can remember.
2.
Create a new ending for the nightmare story and write it out. Be careful, however, to make the new ending peaceful. Remember that the nightmare is grounded in emotions such as raw anger that have been provoked by a trauma. The point of a new ending is to “tame†the emotions, not merely vent them in violence and revenge.
A woman had been raped. She had a recurring nightmare of being pursued by a dark figure. In the nightmare, she ran and ran, and, each each time the nightmare recurred, she always woke up, sweating and gasping for breath, at the same point. So she decided, as a new ending, to stop running and confront the figure. In a subsequent dream, when the pursuing figure appeared, she turned to him and said, “Who are you and what do you want?†And here’s where her unconscious surprised her. The man replied, very politely, “You dropped this, and I have been trying to give it back to you.†He handed her a package. She asked what it was. “It’s your faith in human goodness,†he said. She woke up. And the nightmare never returned.
3.
Rehearse the new version of the story in your imagination each night just before going to sleep. Do this as close as possible to your falling asleep without any other activity between the rehearsal and sleep.
4.
Perform a relaxation exercise. Do this immediately after the rehearsal, as a way to fall asleep peacefully. You may use any technique with which you are familiar. If you need to learn a relaxation technique, try Progressive Muscle Relaxation. Or just use the Breathing Warm-up from the Autogenics Training if you need to get started as soon as possible and don’t have the time to learn something more complex.
http://www.guidetopsychology.com/dreams.htm
Imagery Rehearsal Therapy
The raw emotions of repetitive, intrusive nightmares can be “tamed†by a simple, easily learned technique called Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT). If you have multiple recurring nightmares, select just one for the IRT process and use the process every night until the nightmare has been resolved; when that nightmare has been resolved, repeat the process for other nightmares.
1.
Write out the text of the nightmare. Tell the story, no matter how frightening, in as much detail as you can remember.
2.
Create a new ending for the nightmare story and write it out. Be careful, however, to make the new ending peaceful. Remember that the nightmare is grounded in emotions such as raw anger that have been provoked by a trauma. The point of a new ending is to “tame†the emotions, not merely vent them in violence and revenge.
A woman had been raped. She had a recurring nightmare of being pursued by a dark figure. In the nightmare, she ran and ran, and, each each time the nightmare recurred, she always woke up, sweating and gasping for breath, at the same point. So she decided, as a new ending, to stop running and confront the figure. In a subsequent dream, when the pursuing figure appeared, she turned to him and said, “Who are you and what do you want?†And here’s where her unconscious surprised her. The man replied, very politely, “You dropped this, and I have been trying to give it back to you.†He handed her a package. She asked what it was. “It’s your faith in human goodness,†he said. She woke up. And the nightmare never returned.
3.
Rehearse the new version of the story in your imagination each night just before going to sleep. Do this as close as possible to your falling asleep without any other activity between the rehearsal and sleep.
4.
Perform a relaxation exercise. Do this immediately after the rehearsal, as a way to fall asleep peacefully. You may use any technique with which you are familiar. If you need to learn a relaxation technique, try Progressive Muscle Relaxation. Or just use the Breathing Warm-up from the Autogenics Training if you need to get started as soon as possible and don’t have the time to learn something more complex.